Allowing our kids to participate in sports is not enough for them. In order for them to really be good at what they are doing, they want and need the support of their parents in a personal way. When parents show an interest in what their kid is doing, this inspires the child to excel. Going to their swim meets, basketball and/or football games or to whatever activity in which they participate really encourages a kid to do their best.
For some reason, a child really does want to please their parents, even though it probably does not look like it a lot of the time. Of course, learning how to listen to a child can be a rough road for a parent. I recall the time many years ago hearing the saying: “A child should be seen and not heard.” That sort of hung around for many years. Today we know that it is important to listen to our kid. That does not mean they get their own way; it just means that we hear what they say. And, if a child knew enough to say it, they would say: “Hey mom and dad, I really want you to come to my game. It will make a big difference to me.”